How to Heal When Your Family Doesn’t Accept Your Identity
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

How to Heal When Your Family Doesn’t Accept Your Identity

What happens when the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally refuse to accept who you are? The pain of family rejection cuts deep, leaving behind grief, self-doubt, and a longing for belonging. But healing is possible. In this piece, we explore how to navigate that pain, set boundaries, build chosen family, and reclaim your right to exist fully and unapologetically. You are not alone—and you are worthy of love, exactly as you are. 💛

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Let Yourself Receive: Embracing Love, Compliments, and Good Experiences
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

Let Yourself Receive: Embracing Love, Compliments, and Good Experiences

In a world shaped by colonial ideals of self-sacrifice, productivity, and hyper-independence, many of us struggle with receiving. Whether it's accepting a compliment, receiving love, or allowing ourselves to enjoy good experiences without guilt, we often feel unworthy or ashamed. But what if receiving was not just an individual act, but a radical form of healing and resistance?

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To The ‘Cycle Breakers’ of The Family
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

To The ‘Cycle Breakers’ of The Family

Being the “cycle breaker” in your family is both an act of love and an exhausting responsibility. It means that you’re the one choosing to stop generational patterns of trauma, dysfunction, or unhealthy behaviors—whether that’s emotional suppression, toxic relationships, financial instability, or unspoken family wounds. But with that choice comes an immense emotional burden.

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Brainspotting: A Somatic Approach to Healing Trauma
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

Brainspotting: A Somatic Approach to Healing Trauma

Trauma is not just a psychological experience—it lives in the body, passed down through generations, shaped by colonial violence, systemic oppression, and cultural erasure. While mainstream therapy often centers Eurocentric models, somatic healing practices—deeply rooted in Indigenous and ancestral wisdom—have long recognized the body as a site of both trauma and liberation.

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“It’s a Chemical Imbalance:” How This Myth Fails Marginalized Communities
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“It’s a Chemical Imbalance:” How This Myth Fails Marginalized Communities

For decades, the dominant explanation for mental health conditions like depression has hinged on a single, seemingly straightforward idea: a “chemical imbalance” in the brain. This concept suggests that mental illness stems from too much or too little of certain neurotransmitters, like serotonin or dopamine. While the simplicity of this narrative has made it widely accepted—boosted by pharmaceutical marketing—it’s a reductionist approach that ignores the complexities of mental health. For marginalized communities, the consequences of this myth are particularly damaging.

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Queer and Culture: Embracing LGBTQ+ Identity as a Child of Immigrants
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

Queer and Culture: Embracing LGBTQ+ Identity as a Child of Immigrants

Being LGBTQ+ and a child of immigrants often means walking a tightrope between honoring cultural traditions and embracing your authentic self. This journey can be filled with unique challenges—navigating familial expectations, cultural stigmas, and the pressures of living in two worlds. But it’s also a journey of resilience and self-discovery. In this article, we explore the complexities of balancing dual identities and how culturally sensitive therapy can help you thrive in your authenticity.

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How to Unfollow Beauty Standards on Social Media and Reclaim Your Feed
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

How to Unfollow Beauty Standards on Social Media and Reclaim Your Feed

Social media often reinforces unrealistic beauty standards that can negatively impact our body image. But by curating a feed that supports body liberation and authenticity, you can reclaim your digital space and nurture a positive self-image. In this article, we explore how to unfollow beauty standards, follow body-positive accounts, and create empowering content.

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Burnout by Design: How Productivity & Hustle Culture Keep Us Oppressed
Sonica Sharma Sonica Sharma

Burnout by Design: How Productivity & Hustle Culture Keep Us Oppressed

In a world that thrives on exhaustion, rest is more than a break—it’s a reclamation of power. By choosing to rest, you challenge the systems that profit from your burnout and resistance. Rest becomes your tool for healing, your declaration that you refuse to be consumed by the grind. It’s not an escape; it’s an act of defiance, a reminder that your worth is not defined by your productivity. In reclaiming rest, you reclaim yourself.

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Pathologizing Oppression
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Pathologizing Oppression

What happens when the natural, understandable psychological responses to enduring systemic racism, chronic harassment, and societal exclusion are wrongly interpreted as mental illness? Pathologizing these responses can further marginalize individuals and obscure the root causes of their distress.

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How to Build Self-Worth When You’ve Spent a Lifetime Feeling Not Enough
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How to Build Self-Worth When You’ve Spent a Lifetime Feeling Not Enough

For many of us, the feeling of "not enough" can be a persistent weight that shapes our daily lives. Whether from early experiences or societal pressures, these feelings of inadequacy can deeply affect self-esteem and personal growth. The good news is that building self-worth is not only possible—it’s essential for living a fulfilling life. In this article, we explore the journey of healing, offering practical steps to challenge negative beliefs, practice self-compassion, and cultivate a positive self-image.

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Decolonizing Body Image for Parents: How to Raise Kids Who Love Their Bodies
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Decolonizing Body Image for Parents: How to Raise Kids Who Love Their Bodies

Raising children who love and appreciate their bodies in a world filled with unrealistic beauty standards is no small task. As parents, we have the power to challenge societal pressures and foster body positivity by embracing diversity, rejecting diet culture, and teaching self-acceptance. This article explores how decolonizing body image—shifting away from narrow, oppressive ideals—can help you nurture resilience and confidence in your child.

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The Wellness Trap: How Capitalism Co-Opted Self-Care
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The Wellness Trap: How Capitalism Co-Opted Self-Care

Explore how wellness culture has become a multi-billion-dollar industry that sustains capitalism and isolates us from collective healing. This article discusses the commodification of self-care, the ancestral connection to rest, and how reclaiming rest can serve as a radical act of resistance. Learn practical ways to resist hustle culture, unlearn individualism, and engage in communal rest.

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From Talk Therapy to Embodiment: How Decolonizing Therapy Connects Mind, Body, and Spirit
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From Talk Therapy to Embodiment: How Decolonizing Therapy Connects Mind, Body, and Spirit

Decolonized therapy goes beyond traditional mental health approaches by integrating mind, body, and spirit in the healing process. This holistic framework embraces culturally sensitive practices, somatic work, ancestral connection, and spirituality, offering a deeper, more personalized path to recovery. By honoring diverse cultural traditions and addressing systemic trauma, decolonized therapy provides a liberatory healing experience that fosters true empowerment and connection.

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